MIDWIFERY CARE FOR
NON-CONFORMISTS.
I offer fierce compassion and no-BS support as an independent midwife in Hastings – for people who’ve had enough of sugar-coating and tick-box care. Whether you’re looking for private midwife care, antenatal support, or tongue tie help, my approach is unhurried, inclusive, and built entirely around you.
Not Your Standard Midwife.
I’m Emily - midwife, mother and unapologetic non-conformist.
I wear black, drink too much coffee, and believe maternity care should never feel rushed, judged, or one-size-fits-all.
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I created My Darling Midwife for the women and birthing people who don’t see themselves in the usual birth spaces.
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For the ones who want care that’s real, reflective, and respectful.
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For the ones who are done being told they’re “fine” when they’re actually struggling.
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For the ones who want to feel held – but never handled.
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I bring 15 years of experience, sharp clinical skills, and a grounded, surprisingly soft presence that makes people feel safe.
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If you’ve ever walked out of an appointment feeling small, dismissed, or invisible – I see you.
And I’m here to offer something better.
No pastel platitudes. Just care that meets you where you are - fierce, soft, and everything in between.
Got a question or not sure where to start? → Email me
Come hang out on Instagram → @mydarlingmidwife